The Woman Event
With the “Walk Read” System
by William Evans
Smashwords Edition
Copyright 2010 William Evans
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The Woman Event
Table of Contents
Chapter 1 - In the Beginning
Chapter 2 - Where to Find and How to Meet the Woman
Chapter 3 - My “WALK READ” System
Chapter 4 - What to do for a Simple Date
Chapter 5 - General Observations and More
Chapter 6 - How to Make the Relationship Work and/or become the Lover
Chapter 7 - Is this Relationship going to Endure?
Chapter 8 - Time for the QUITS and MOVE ON!
Why read this e-book? Learn my new and unique method of evaluating women by using my “WALK READ” system. Learn how to overcome shyness and loss of words when talking to women and avoid the awkward moments of nothing to say. Learn how to find the right woman for you. Learn how to meet the right woman without being waiting to be introduced.
Learn my “WALK READ” system and use it to help find the woman perfect for you. Learn how to find a woman who loves affection and sex as well as a great companion or the women to avoid because they will complain until your ears fall off and be harpies from hell or even the women who have the “NOTHING WALK”. This e-book will show how to find the right woman with the right walk before you get involved in an encumbering relationship. Be careful of what you do because you may find yourself in a long marriage to a loving woman just as I have done by using my “WALK READ” system and other information found in this e-book.
This e-book will show you step-by-step How to “WALK READ” a woman and to know immediately what to expect from her. Is she a cold fish out of the water? Is she a complainer? Is she hot and passionate? Is she a hot complainer? The answers are in this e-book.
This is a great how-to-find-and-evaluate guide for a great sex life and relationships. Where to find women and meet them other than through a dating site. Learn how to find and get from the woman the greatest or the worst sex in your life. How to get what you want from a woman, sex, love or friendship. Or just how to get what you want from a woman.
Women should read this e-book to find out what to flaunt and when to use it. After reading this e-book, she will have the knowledge of what many men will be observing, wanting and trying to get. What an advantage! With this knowledge of what men will be using will come the power to flaunt what she’s got to get what she wants! What an advantage!
In the Beginning
Once upon a time, they lived happily ever after. That is purpose of this e-book. Everyone wants to have this happen to them. It happened to me, it can happen to you and this e-book will help you find what you want…sex, love, a relationship and happiness with a companion for life. Or anything in between.
As an ordinary guy, plain looking guy, who figured out very soon, at a young age, women were interesting, important and had that SEX which is what I wanted big time when my hormones kicked in! In a short period of time I noticed empirical indicators of the young women also wanting sex. Being perceptive, with the interest to complete research at any time, led me to practice my observances in the greatest of detail and develop new techniques to achieve the best desired results.
Why should a woman read this e-book? After reading this e-book, she will have the knowledge of what many men will be observing, wanting and trying to get. With this knowledge of what men will be using will come the power to flaunt what she’s got to get what she wants! What an advantage!
The research for this e-book started while I was in a military school as a juvenile delinquent being reformed. Of course, I didn’t know or think I would be writing an e-book on this subject of reading her walk and how to find great sex while looking for a great relationship. But, with the encouragement of my friends with whom I have shared my “WALK READ” system and my wife, who was chosen using my “WALK READ” system in this e-book, I am writing this e-book. Now the world of men will have more tools to help them with their pursuit of their ultimate love and the women will know what to exploit.
The situation which led to developing the “reading” system of this e-book was that I was sixteen going on twenty-five and the hormones had kicked-in while being stuck in a military school and no women in the school. How much rougher could it be? Especially, since I had already experienced my first sex with my first girlfriend before being stuck in the military school. Looking back on that turn of my life was the best thing that could have happened in my life. I stopped being a juvenile delinquent, achieved a direction of life and created my “WALK READ” system which has been MORE than useful and right on target with few exceptions for more than 40 years. During this time, I found numerous items of interest about women which would be information for a lifetime of use. The game was on when I found out girls’ hormones kick-in before the boys hormones, at the age of fourteen or so, and the girls want the sex more than the boys do (even though the girls try not to show it). And, how the girls, later women, are approached will determine what happens next.
How did I discover the need for and start my “WALK READ” system? My “WALK READ” system started at military school. The cadets were released after Sunday parade for the afternoon and the local girls would come to the small town to meet cadets and so-on. They would walk around the sidewalks of the small town as the cadets would walk around on the sidewalks following the girls while trying to figure out how to get to know them or even how to talk to them. I would try to talk to all of them. It didn’t take long to figure out if the girls would talk to me and would possibly become affectionate walked a certain way. This observation was correct over and over again. At that time, I knew I was on to something and it was very useful for getting desired results. This became my “WALK READ” system.
Over the years, I refined my “WALK READ” system and became more efficient with each and every opportunity. After all, my hormones were screaming and I needed sex now! I developed practical, usable methods to meet women under numerous circumstances and engage them in conversation. All of this helped because I was single and thought I would be single for the rest of my life because even though my “WALK READ” system was productive, the result left less than soul mates but lots of great and adventurous sex. Many of the women wanted to be a part of my life, but, I wasn’t going to settle for less than 100 percent of what I wanted, the whole package. But no, not single for the rest of my life. My “WALK READ” system worked and I found my perfect woman as my soul mate. Now, together for more than 22 years, married for almost all of the years, my wife says she would do it all over again with me and I say me too… (a good answer). It couldn’t have turned out better.
Also, this e-book is aimed for the single man and woman. If you are in a relationship of some sort such as living together or married, this e-book will lead you down the path to a heap of trouble somewhere and all of it yours. If your relationship isn’t a good one, get out of it before reading this e-book, because, when you read this e-book you will know what is wrong with what you have got and how good it could be with the right woman.
After reading this e-book, all you have to do is circulate and practice my “WALK READ” system. Go places that interest you, because when you meet a woman while doing an activity that you like, you will spend the rest of your relationship doing whatever you were doing when you met her….within reason.
Remember while reading this book, nothing is guaranteed. So goes the information in my e-book. This book has been compiled from my observations and experiences and there is no guarantee of results even though my results have been great. NOTHING overcomes bad manners, inappropriate behavior, poor personality and all of that sort while trying to establish a good relationship. If you read her body language or actions incorrectly the results will be wrong. Be perceptive and learn through your experiences. This book is not scientific, but will help you find, meet, and categorize women using my “WALK READ” system. The rest is up to you.
Where to Find and How to Meet the Woman
I will elaborate on many points in this chapter because this topic is and will always be an issue. You have to meet the woman before you can enjoy her companionship. Every time I met a couple who seemed to be happy, I would ask how, when and where they met. The answers were always interesting. The answers included through friends, recreational activities such as skiing, hiking, biking, and jogging. But, none is more unique than my experience. I met my wife when I crawled out from under my crawler loader (a bulldozer with a bucket) that I was repairing with a friend and there stood my future wife. To my surprise, she talked to me even though I was covered in mud, grease and wearing ragged clothes. And she started talking to me by saying “Hi! My name is Jacquelyn! What’s yours?” My reply was “Richard, go away little girl”. She just hates it when I tell this story! Later, after dating, I asked why she took the time to talk to me, her reply was “I was interested in the person, not the clothes and I knew you would clean-up real good”.
All of my friends from the city have marveled at all of my relationship with a red-haired mountain woman! When I was in college, the father of a friend of mine told me to quit dating all of these painted women with expensive clothes and date a plain woman with basic values instead of just an interest in what kind of car I drove, what my major was and how much money I could make after college. And many years after college I was dating this woman! All the years I dated pretentious, painted women, who were looking for the money was a waste of time. All of my friends are amazed that my mountain-girl relationship has lasted longer than ALL of their marriages (some multiple) and is still going strong. Be sure to see my “test before marriage”. The message is, start your relationship with a person with good values.
Meet the women anywhere and everywhere! I have never had a blind date or a hook-up that was any good. I don’t believe that others can quantify an attraction interest between two people. But, if the hook-up is presented, then make it lunch so it can be ended in a timely manner without too much discomfort or if good, forget ending lunch and make a day of it. Avoid bars (AKA meat markets). Most good relationships don’t start in bars and the environment of the bar is not a good place to meet women, have a good conversation or observe the woman’s walk. Is this the chosen activity for this rest of your life? Have you ever tried to talk to someone in a bar? How can you have a decent conversation and get to know someone this way? So, don’t try to meet someone at a meat market because it is a dating battle zone.
Meet a woman: where ever you are, such as, in a elevator, in the door way of a building, waiting at the curb or any activity that interests you, such as bike rides, library, 5K & 10K runs, jogging, friends party, shopping, grocery shopping at 6PM Sat, sailing, art galleries, skiing on the bunny slope (the experienced skiers aren’t interested in conversation, just skiing), the mall. You get the idea.
Don’t be afraid to say something to a complete stranger. I have met women just about everywhere by various techniques. One time I met a woman in the entrance of a high-rise office building. I was going in as she was coming out. We came face to face and I said “We shouldn’t meet like this”. The woman started talking and before I knew it we had made plans to meet for lunch which led to more.
One of my favorite places to meet women is at 5K and 10K runs. All of the women are in good shape and their walk can be observed before and after the run while in their tight running shorts. The run is good exercise, gets you out of the house and can meet some interesting people even if you don’t meet the right one.
I have been told that I would talk to anyone. And, that is correct! I determined if a woman would talk to me, then more could develop. More being anything you want if the situation develops in a positive manner. The term positive is relative to the situation and through experience and practice. But, if she doesn’t talk to you then move on there are more fish in the sea, busses to ride and trains to catch. No point in spinning your wheels on a dead end road when there are so many open roads to travel. If you don’t like that road, move on. My father always compared women to busses (they have big headlights!) and would say “If you don’t like the ride, get on another bus”. Either way, hit the road!
Successful conversation is just a comment away; just make sure the comment is respectful. No matter who the woman is, she wants respect to some degree. Something as simple as a greeting…Hi, how are you doing today? Think it will rain? This elevator sure is slow. At the grocery store, I have always asked women their opinion about products especially since I am not a ‘shopper’. Just don’t try this on Saturday at 6:00 pm unless you want attention. The women know that if you are shopping at 6:00 pm and don’t have a wedding ring on then you are available. This is especially true if you are buying a take-home dinner at the in-store deli. So, get ready.
One time, while getting a take home dinner at a deli, a woman stepped-up behind me and ordered a take-home dinner. Seizing the moment, I asked her if she was going to eat her dinner alone? The answer was “yes”. But then soon became “No” as we made plans to eat at my house. Seize the moment!
If she talks to you and she makes the conversation in a positive manner, then more could develop. The women won’t jump you; screaming and clawing just for saying Hi or making polite conversation, just don’t get stupid while conversing with her. Above all, work on your personality and your sense of humor! Women have often commented on my personality and sense of humor (good and bad) of which they have found me interesting. Women are attracted to all sorts of personalities and sense of humors for various reasons and under different circumstances. The women usually are not attracted easily to dull humorless men, maybe if they have a cute butt or lots of money?
IN SUMMARY: MEET THE WOMAN
My “WALK READ” System
What’s in a walk? Everything! It’s all in her walk. A woman’s walk is an event. You don’t even have to be introduced to the woman to know what kind of personality she has because you can “read” her walk from a distance with my “WALK READ” system. Her walk represents the inner truth about the woman’s personality and she cannot hide the information to be “read” from her walk. My “WALK READ” system works with every age, race or ethnic origin of a woman with total accuracy! I have found through my extensive testing that the woman’s walk indicates what kind of sex you can expect from her if you appeal to her. Yes, that is always required. You have got to be her kind of man. If not, move on.
If she knows you are watching, she can accentuate her walk some of the time but not all of the time. Sooner or later her true walk will show through and you will be able to “read” her walk and know her personality. Don’t “read” her walk while she is emotionally stressed or knows you are watching. Almost universally, if a woman is at the mall shopping, she is enjoying the activity. Why else would she be there? This is a time when an accurate “WALK READ” can be completed. She is enjoying the activity she is doing and result is an accurate “WALK READ” If she is with you, her walk representing her mood can be “read” using my “WALK READ” system. The walk displayed will directly reflect how much she is enjoying the activity with you. Even if she knows her inner personality, she most likely would not know how to put it in words and how she feels at the time you are “reading” her walk. Now, with this e-book, you will know all of this and more.
With experience you will be able to “read” the various types of walk and “read” them whether the woman is walking away from or toward you. Even when she is walking up or down the stairs you can “read” her walk. With experience you will be able to spot the types of walks in just about any circumstance.
To use my “WALK READ” system think of the woman’s hips on an axis, both vertical and horizontal as she walks. Along the axis’s, both vertical and horizontal is the rotation or rocking of the hips. The vertical axis – hips rotate on axis like the twisting (TWISTER) or rotating and the horizontal axis – hips rocking like a row boat rocking (ROCKER) while standing in the row boat. The rotation that takes place along the axis (vertical and horizontal) indicates the type of walk and therefore, leads to the analysis of the walk, the personality and consequently, what your interest level will most likely be in that woman from the walk standpoint.
The walk can be “read” anytime, anywhere. The ideal circumstances to “read” the walk is where the ground or flooring is relatively level and the woman isn’t accentuating her walk, or emotionally influenced. That means not mad, overly excited or in a hurry. There are four types of walks in my “WALK READ” system. The “WALK READ” walk types are: (1) NOTHING, (2) COMPLAINER AKA “THE ROCKER”, (3) TOTALLY HOT AKA “THE TWISTER” and (4) HOT COMPLAINER AKA “THE WOBBLER”.
Type of walk: (1) NOTHING
This walk, as viewed from behind, doesn’t have any movement of the hips. The hips don’t twist or rock. And, they don’t have any movement. The hips just don’t move. Don’t expect anything from this woman in the passion department. She could be a very nice and good person, but just doesn’t have the burning desire that makes sex fun and have wild passionate sex as some of the other walks of women indicate.
This walk is the most of nothing of any walk! She isn’t a TWISTER or a ROCKER. The woman walking this walk doesn’t. And you ask what do you mean doesn’t? She doesn’t complain, she doesn’t have hot passion and most of the time, she usually has no personality. And most of all, she doesn’t have an interest in sex or the affection most men want or anything else. She is like a wet dish rag and just about as much fun. She might have sex with you, but it sure won’t be exciting. If you get stuck with this one, you get nothing!
To get an accurate read using the “WALK READ” system, one important fact to remember is that all of the walks are under normal walking conditions and the emotional state of the woman is calm. All influencing circumstances have an effect on the woman’s walk which must be considered while observing the walk. But, no matter what the emotional state of the woman, the walk will be the same, just accentuated.
IN SUMMARY: NOTHING
The next walk is the walk of the COMPLAINER. Prepare your ears for the complaining.
Type of walk: (2) COMPLAINER
AKA “THE ROCKER”
This walk can be described as “THE ROCKER”. Picture a row boat in the water with her standing up in the boat and rocking the boat side to side. The horizontal axis – hips rocking like a row boat rocking (ROCKER). This is the way the walk of the woman appears from behind. Her hips rock just like the row boat.
This walk is the walk you will learn to watch for so you can avoid this woman. Every time you see this walk, your thoughts will be “Oh no, there is that walk again! She will always be ready to complain about everything. If the subject can be interpreted in an unfavorable light, this one can do it. Nothing will be acceptable no matter what it is. When she gets what she wants, she is rarely satisfied. If you ever have sex with her, she won’t be happy with the way you made love to her. You didn’t do it right. And this will carry over to everything else. The complaining may not start immediately, but it will happen before long.
To get an accurate read using the “WALK READ” system, one important fact to remember is that all of the walks are under normal walking conditions and the emotional state of the woman is calm. All influencing circumstances have an effect on the woman’s walk which must be considered while observing the walk. But, no matter what the emotional state of the woman, the walk will be the same, just accentuated.
SUMMARY: THE ROCKER IS A COMPLAINER
The next walk is TOTALLY HOT. Get ready for the action!
Type of walk: (3) TOTALLY HOT
AKA “THE TWISTER”
This walk is the twist walk when viewed from behind. The vertical axis – hips rotate on axis like the twisting (TWISTER). The twisting action of her hips is rotating from one side to the other side. And, the faster the rotation the faster the lovemaking she wants from you.
This is the walk! This is the walk you want to see if you want a warm, affectionate woman who loves to hug and be hugged, cuddle, be held and makes hot passionate sex. I don’t mean just sex. I mean HOT PASSIONATE SEX. This woman doesn’t complain because she is a lover. I don’t mean you can’t make her mad and get her to complain. But, it isn’t in her nature to complain. The only way you could lose out is to “not be the one” for her or show her what a jerk you are. If the deal is on, you have hit the gold mine.
Every time I see a couple walking together and she has this walk, with a high degree of rotation, I wonder to myself “Does he know what he is in for? Has he taken his vitamins?” A woman of this sort can wear a man out!
To get an accurate read using the “WALK READ” system, one important fact to remember is that all of the walks are under normal walking conditions and the emotional state of the woman is calm. All influencing circumstances have an effect on the woman’s walk which must be considered while observing the walk. But, no matter what the emotional state of the woman, the walk will be the same, just accentuated.
SUMMARY: HOT, HOT, HOT!
The next walk is the HOT COMPLAINER. Get ready for the hottun with complaining.
Type of walk: (4) HOT COMPLAINER
AKA “THE WOBBLER”
This type of walk is a combination of THE ROCKER and THE TWISTER which makes the “THE WOBBLER”. The vertical axis – hips twist on the vertical axis, twisting (TWISTER) and on the horizontal axis – hips rocking like a row boat rocking (ROCKER). Picture a row boat in the water with her standing up in the boat and rocking the boat side to side with the twisting (rotating) of her hips when viewed from behind. The hips are rocking and the hips are twisting, like a wobble. This is the way the walk of the “THE WOBBLER” woman appears from behind.
The sex will be great but when she is not engaged in sex she will always be ready to complain about everything. She will sizzle one minute and complain the next. And, sometimes do both at once. If the subject can be interpreted in an unfavorable light, she can do it. Nothing will be acceptable no matter what it is. When she gets what she wants, she is rarely satisfied. If you ever have sex with her, she won’t be happy with the way you made love to her. You didn’t do it right. And this will carry over to everything else. The complaining may not start immediately, but it will happen. If this doesn’t drive you crazy nothing will. Pleasure one minute and complaining the next.
To get an accurate read using the “WALK READ” system, one important fact to remember is that all of the walks are under normal walking conditions and the emotional state of the woman is calm. All influencing circumstances have an effect on the woman’s walk which must be considered while observing the walk. But, no matter what the emotional state of the woman, the walk will be the same, just accentuated.
SUMMARY: HOT COMPLAINER, HOT, HOT, HOT.
What to do for a Simple Date
Lunch Date! Lunch is an opportunity to “analyze” (check her out) her without a major obligation for the future and an easy “out” for each of you without the drudgery of a long date night when all you want to do is dump her and go home if the date isn’t going well (she probably wants to dump you too).
Asking her out to lunch should be an easy task, when not made difficult by extenuating circumstances, for a simple lunch date. To ask her out to lunch say: “Would you like to go to lunch?” If she says “No”, I have always said “I didn’t think so.” If she goes into a diatribe, ranting and raving about something that you don’t want to hear and it is clear that she won’t go to lunch with you (you probably won’t want to go lunch with her by now), respond by saying something such as “It was an invitation for lunch, not for marriage” or “I didn’t realize lunch would be so undesirable, maybe you shouldn’t eat lunch”. If she says “No”, then the deal is off!
After she accepts lunch, remember, you are buying. Don’t pick the most expensive place because then you have just set the bar high for all future dates that will cost you plenty. This will cost you when she will see you as cheap when you don’t take her to another expensive restaurant or it will cost you dollars forever trying to keep up. Or go to the cheapest place unless you discuss the option with your lunch date and she agrees where to go. I have gone to various fast food places but only when my lunch date agrees to the place in advance. Most of all, I prefer cheap. Why not? I am not trying to impress her, just trying to get to know her.
If the lunch date goes well, ask her out for another date while still out on the lunch date. You, of course, have thought of details such as where you might want to take her or from information received during the lunch conversation. I suggest making a mental list of places where you would like to go and present them to her, two at a time as either choice 1 or choice 2, as places for the next date until she agrees. If she isn’t receptive to your suggestions but is still interested (genuinely interested), then ask her where she would like to go. If she has none, then move on. She isn’t interested. If she says “No”, then the deal is off! Move on. And, the most you can expect from her is a friendship, but why would you want that, but a woman who can’t express herself clearly is too stupid to talk to, and what else would you do with her, you aren’t getting laid.
If she says “yes” to the idea of another date with the specifics of the date to be determined later, then agree on a mutually convenient time to call her for finalizing the date plans if you haven’t already. Don’t forget to call at that time…this is important! If the conversation doesn’t go well or she doesn’t agree to any of your suggestions and she doesn’t have any suggestions of where to go, then the deal is off! Move on. She has changed her mind and isn’t mature enough to express herself clearly. End the phone call politely and move on. If she wants you, she will agree to go to anyplace at anytime just to be with you and just to be in the same air space with you.
Remember…nothing ventured, nothing gained.
The “deal is off” means the chance of you getting anything from this woman is remote to none. And, Move on means move on.
If the woman starts showing her bad side dump her immediately. It won’t get any better than the bad side of the woman.
Don’t expect to jump her bones on the first date…unless she makes the moves and SHE wants to do it. Don’t try to talk her into it, don’t try to trick her into it and most of all don’t try to jam her into it. When the women are ready they don’t need ANY encouragement! They will let you know when you will get some and not until then. Remember this! Besides, she may have herpes and is trying to figure out how to tell you! The difference between love and herpes is that herpes is forever. If the match is good the benefits will come.
Speaking of sexually transmitted diseases, it would be a good decision for both of you to be tested for all STD’s. You never know what surprises will be prevented by spending a short visit to the doctor and it may be you who will be happy.
General Observations and More
My personal research over the years has produced the following general observations I have found useful when getting to know the woman on my mind. These observations are listed in order of distance. From far away to the most close and intimate contact. The circumstances of your observations must always be considered in the context of your relationship and the environment to establish relevancy of these general observations. So, here are my observations.
Graphology:
The reading and evaluation of handwriting. Before ever seeing, meeting or getting to know the woman, you will be able to know the details of the woman through her handwriting. Find out her strengths, weaknesses, drive, perseverance, ability to focus, and more. This technique works for everyone, not just women. The subject of graphology is too detailed for this e-book. There are many fine books on graphology and I suggest adding the subject of graphology to your reading list to use as another tool for reading personalities.
Clothing:
If her choice of clothing is dark and reserved then she wants respect. Always treat a woman wearing this type of clothing with respect if you expect to get anywhere with her. If her choice of clothing is loud colored clothing and flashy or even gaudy, then she is most likely flighty and even free spirited (remember the hippies?). She might even be a space cadet who has no idea of how to dress herself.
When observing the clothing choice of a woman, consider the possibility of limited financial resources to dress in a particular style. If you have money and recognize other outstanding character traits in the woman, then you can change everything and dress her in the style she would like to become accustomed. No matter what, treat all women with respect regardless of their clothing style and don’t be judgmental, especially since you might need to look in a mirror to review how you dress and will be accepted by a good woman. If you are not scoring, then this may be one or the reason for not being successful with the women.
Pretty face:
Even if the woman has a beautiful body, you must be able to look at her face and love her face because the body heads south with age while the face is always there. So, if you are going after her beautiful young body you are heading for a crash landing along with your shallow values.
Personality and Attributes:
Do you like the way she talks? The sound of her voice? Do you like what she talks about? And every little thing she does? Do you? Most divorces are caused by little things.
Hair:
Does she take care of her hair? A woman who takes care of her hair takes care of herself. This reflects her self-esteem. Sometimes she doesn’t have the money to spend on her clothes to wear the clothes of her choice, but she will take care of her hair.
Here is the level of hot women sorted by color (hottest first to coldest) of their hair including variations of hair color:
Hottest-----------------Red: The hottest of women, very emotional.
Black: Almost as hot as red, almost as emotional.
Brown: Still very hot.
Coldest-----------------Blond: The real blond and I don’t mean a bottle blond. They are naturally the coldest women. They are void of the hots!
A friend of mine said, after his divorce, he had two kids, both by rape and then he decided to find a woman who enjoyed sex. My experience exactly. The REAL blonds are usually very beautiful, but if you are looking for a red hot lover, look elsewhere!
Hips:
If you desire narrow hips then you are most likely artistic and or creative. If you prefer wide hips then you are most likely the engineer type.
Lips:
If her upper lip is thin then she is possibly a little kinky or at least more open to the thought of kinky activities than other lip styles. If her upper lip is large (not the pumped-up injected lips) then her interests in sex are most likely just the run of the mill, common interests in sex. If her lower lip is thin then she might not be the very touchy feely, hug-me all the time and snuggle forever kind of person. If her lower lip is large, protruding rounded, pouty, and not injected then she is most likely affectionate and loving.
Breasts:
If you prefer small breasts then you are most likely a secure individual with self-confidence and don’t need a secure woman to help you find your way. You might need someone who needs a secure leader to give them direction in their life and an anchor point. Just what you need?
If you prefer large breasts then you are most likely an insecure individual and looking for someone to ad mental security to your life. Fake boobs or not, these observations seem to be true. Isn’t it amazing that many men prefer big boobs?
If she is showing a lot of cleavage, meaning a lot of skin, she is advertising her availability. Women like to show the boobs when trolling for action. If she is taken she won’t be showing everyone what she’s got. The exception is if she has fake ballooned boobs. These women have placed their self esteem in the size of their boobs and believe this is their only worth as a woman and the only way to attract men. The boobs will be out there to show everyone they have a false value as a big boobed (falsies) woman. I would advise avoiding this type of woman because they have a self esteem problem and will always look for approval based on their boobs.
Hug, Hugs and Hugging:
There are four types of hugs: “Side Hug”, “Church Hug”, “Friend Hug” and the “I Want Your Body Hug”. The “Side Hug” is just one arm over her shoulder with a little embrace from the side. The “Church Hug” is just a one arm hug without full body contact and maybe cheek contact and of short duration. The “Friend Hug” is a two armed hug with minimal contact and is usually of short duration. The “I Want Your Body Hug” is full body contact, for as long as both parties want the hug. This is full body contact, a real octopus act.
How do you know when or how to hug? If you are in doubt about the hug, then forget it. Most women don’t want to hug you! Unless she makes the first move, I recommend not trying to hug her. If you already know her well, then you can ask for a hug or hold your arms out as to indicate a hugging advance and ask for a hug. Be ready for rejection unless she is in the mood! Hug while she wants to, when she doesn’t, don’t. Hug for as long as she is hugging you. The moment she starts releasing her hug, you release also, immediately, unless you know this person very well or are looking for trouble.
What will the hug tell you? For starters, it will tell you if she wants body contact with you. This hugging will indicate were this encounter is going. The “Side Hug” is a favorite of mine for friends. But, a “Side Hug” when done with contact with one of her breasts from the side against your rib cage area will indicate how excited she is if her breast is firm. Of course, this is different if she has breast implants. That changes everything.
Read her emotional state:
Eyes dilated from being excited or on drugs. I have known women, that when her eyes were dilated and we weren’t in a dark location, she was intensely interested in sex immediately. She was ready then and she always wanted what she wanted!
Flexing nostrils, excited or winded from running to meet you? Body language, receptive to you or ignoring you? Looking away? Checking her watch? Smiling at others? Not engaged in conversation with you?
How to Make the Relationship Work and/or become the Lover
This book, THE WOMAN EVENT, abbreviated as “WE”, is about all good relationships. These good relationships are all about the you and me, the “we”. The relationship will have challenges from the start to the end if either of you don’t understand what “we” means. To start, the “we” in a relationship, is to be a good listener. Be responsive to her needs. Do what she wants. Put her first. When in doubt, give back to the relationship. And, when you can’t give anymore, give some more. That’s all for a start and continue from that point forward.
Don’t rush things. Let her make the first move indicating right now! Otherwise give it a few dates and if things are going well, and her body language feedback is positive, then go for it. But, if she puts a stop to your advances or says no, then STOP and reevaluate the situation. And, even state your observations and what was expected. If she says you are wrong, incorrect, mistaken or something such as these comments, then you are wrong and it is time to move on because she is a prick-tease or you wanted something so bad that you ignored or misread all the signs to achieve false expectations. Time to rethink your approach.
Want JUST SEX? State your intentions up front if you are not looking for anything more than sex. No relationships, marriage, etc. So, if this is just a sport-fucking event or is a hit and run, this will help prevent hurt feelings and set the ground rules for an escape without obligation in your mind. A woman may agree to just sex, but if she is attracted to you she always wants a relationship including marriage. And, be careful, you may be the one looking for more and she just wants the use of your body when she wants it and no more than that.
Let the woman indicate when she is ready for sex. Men are ready all the time, but a woman must be ready when she is ready. They can’t be made ready. If they aren’t interested then forget it. Just be there when she is ready if she wants you or move on.
Make yourself presentable. The initial appearance. That is what the women initially observe in a man (second to your butt). Well groomed. Personal grooming includes but is not limited to: hair, teeth – brushed, flossed and whitened and your clothing. Body odor controlled and not too much cologne. Be clean! Clean clothes – they don’t have to be new just clean and not frumpy.
Personality – yours, No positive response to your personality, don’t waste your time, move on.
Is this Relationship going to Endure?
Eliminators:
Know your eliminators. Such as, if she is: a drug user, a smoker, jealous, a nail biter, stupid, high maintenance. She has: terrible personal habits, bad attitude, mental problems or incompatible religious beliefs. You should know in advance everything that you can’t tolerate and which ones are relationship terminators. Make your own list. Look for them and don’t get started in a relationship thinking you can overlook the eliminators and change her. It won’t happen.
With her for nine months or longer? NO. Not the time to make a kid! Time in the saddle with the relationship. Many of my relationships did not last nine months and they shouldn’t have. If they did last more than nine months we had something in common, but, not enough to endure the low points. So, if your relationship lasts more than nine months you have something going for a possible long term relationship but not until you do the PRE-MARRIAGE TEST.
THE PRE-MARRIAGE TEST:
Four days away from everyone else for the relationship pre-marriage test. This can be any four days in a motel or a hotel, and an hour or more drive from home. The days must be away from everything and everyone that you know. No relatives. No friends. No work. This is to establish neutral territory for each of you and determine if you can tolerate each other after four days. Any other factors in the equation will alter the variables of the environment and the true results will not be known.
This a great test because the motel or hotel is not your place and not her place. Both of you won’t be trying to be nice in the other persons domain in consideration of the other’s feelings. You don’t have to stay in the room all of the time. Just be away from everyone and everything else you would normally see or do in your life and stay in a motel of hotel. This is when the real you comes out and shows itself. And, after both of you have your fill of the other person’s quirks demands and so-on, the other person sharing the room will know the real you, good or bad.
I discovered this acid test by accident. I spend a four day weekend at a nice motel on a short vacation with a woman I had been dating for almost nine months. After three days the grief started and we had enough. She had always been at my place and had always been on her best behavior and did not try to change my environment. The motel was just as much her environment as it was mine, so suddenly, I was no longer the boss and she didn’t like anything I did or the way anything happened.
This became my acid test. If any relationship seemed like it was going to last, it got the test. I even put this test to my wife before we were married and she passed with high marks. And, the ultimate away and alone test happened during an early 90’s ice storm. We were stranded in a 900 square foot mountain house, far up a remote mountain road, during an intense ice storm for 7 days. We could not even leave the house due to the icy conditions and high winds. Just think, we still love each other!
I have told this test to everyone I know who is planning to get married. Those who try it have told me that it will definitely make or break a relationship real fast. Especially since the test has ended many marginal relationships which should never have been started in the first place. Those who passed the test have told me it was a good test for a good marriage.
Open relationships:
So you think you want to be the stud around town and have all the women and sex you want and then go home to your loving wife while she waits at home for you. Ah, ha, ha, ha, haaagh! You dummy you! If you want an open relationship you will learn some lessons about availability and who gets the action. A friend of mine talked his wife into an open relationship so he could do all the women in the western hemisphere. The plan was great, but, when his wife bought into the plan, she was in play also! She started getting ALL the action while he sat at home or was on the town trying to score, with very limited results. Suddenly he tried to change the rules of the game and end her action.
The result was that she made the new rules. They were: he started this game, she enjoyed the game and she was going to continue whether or not he got laid. And, get the kids and everything in a divorce. The lesson to learn is that women can get action anytime they want it, but, the men can’t just go out and get it unless they are lying about their situation or are buying a whore. Once the game starts, you can’t end it.
Women want a relationship with commitment of some sort with rules of the game that they agree upon unless they are retarded or don’t care, because they have their own game. No woman is knowingly going to hook-up with a man obligated to another woman unless she is a whore or in the swinging community. And, just think about all of the sexually transmitted diseases out there! So, does the open relationship still sound appealing to you?
Time for the QUITS and MOVE ON!
A LISTING OF SOME REASONS TO CALL IT QUITS AND MOVE ON WHEN:
In the beginning – doesn’t respond to your interest, move on.
She avoids you, don’t knock yourself out, move on.
You see she smokes and you don’t, don’t stop, move on.
She uses drugs and you don’t, don’t stop, move on.
Religious incompatibility, move on.
She doesn’t give you any attention even though you are there for her, move on.
She is rude to you or works on embarrassing you (trying to get you to make the “decision”), move on.
She wants to date others, move on.
She doesn’t fill your needs, move on.
She doesn’t care what is important to you (I don’t mean saying she does), move on.
She is jealous, move on.
She tries to make you jealous (don’t get jealous, get gone!) move on.
She would much rather tease you than give you what you want, move on.
You don’t meet her needs, whatever they are, move on.
You find out she is a pathological liar, move on.
If she says “No” at the wrong time then dump her, move on.
When her attitude goes bad, then it is time to move -on.
Your attitude goes bad, then it is time to move on.
There isn’t any “we”, move on.
And anything else you can think of, move on.
William Evans has been around for more than 58 years. All of the years observing women from one viewpoint or another. Thirty-eight years single with twenty-four of those years pursuing the interest of sex in the dating jungle. With a long and successful career in business, the interest of sex, as the case with any healthy man, has been always present and a major force of motivation, starting when the hormones kicked-in. Love has been the desired end result, but difficult to find. With time, the contents of this e-book were developed and refined as I found true love while finding hot, passionate women with whom to enjoy sex and a lifetime companion. Hopefully, the readers will find this e-book as interesting and helpful as it was for me to complete the research and write about it.