Franco Seduction´s tips on how to use pickup lines effectively
Hi All,
This is a free guide about how to use effectively pickup lines by Franco, the founder of Franco Seduction.
I hope you find it useful. I wish you can put this into practice in everyday life to make of the realization of all your desires become true.
Best Regards,
Franco
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Hey All,
Let's talk a little bit about how to build effective pickup lines and how to have them really work on women.
Here is Hans writing from Germany.
He is in discomfort and very close to get prompt relief to his trouble in getting past the pickup lines.
“Franco,
First of all thank you for the recent advice on how to get rid of my one-itis for my former girlfriend.
I really realize now how she played me like a violin.
In this period of my life I am very much out doing pickup and have this issue of not being able to get past the pickup line causing me a real pain.
I use some pickup lines like this one:
“Hey, I think I saw you before. Ah! Now I remember.. it was in Paradise”
or
“Hello, are we related? Do you want us to be?”
The results are a disaster: some of them laugh straight to my face, some turn their face to another direction, someone looks at me like I would be an alien coming from Mars.
The worst ones are the ones who stare at me with a disgusted expression on their faces.”
What´s going on here? Am I not being cocky and funny here?
The girls I am approaching are about 8s on my scale so quite beautiful.
Please help.
Regards, Hans”
“Dear Hans,
I can feel your pain. See men are logical, practical creatures. We tend to think along the logic of:
a > b > c > d > e > f >... along a logical chain of events.
So you are probably thinking:
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I use a pickup line > she responds to me > we have sex.
Well, Hans, that´s not the case with women.
Women are extremely interested in 5 things when they deal with men:
A challenge.
Communication.
Feeling strong, different emotions.
Strong leadership.
You are not “hitting” on her (this makes her feel like a slut if you do)
You do not come out as supplicating to her. You do not come out as kissing her up.
To have your pickup lines structured in an effective way please ask yourself these 6 questions before you open your mouth:
Am I being a challenge to her right now?
Does she get the feeling that we are communicating?
Do I induce in her strong and different emotions?
Am I leading her?
Do I come out as hitting on her?
Do I come out as kissing her up?
If the answer to all of the first 4 is yes and the answer to the last 2 is no then your pickup line will get you very, very far.
So let´s look at all the 6 points closely:
Challenge
One big reason pickup lines do not work is: you are not being a challenge to her by using one.
Believe it or not: many other guys tried that on her the same day.
I am right now traveling by ship to my summer house.
Well only this morning at the ship terminal I saw at least 3 guys trying the same stuff on a group of young women sitting at the bar.
Same thing was happening on the ship.
These guys were drunk and came out as really, really lame.
All the girls of the world and even the ones who are barely 7s have "already seen it all."
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For them it is like seeing the same boring movie again and again and again.
So for a pickup line to be effective it has to be a challenge for her.
Something she did not hear before and which puts her on her toes.
The pickup line should be framed so to put her to impress you about something and not you to impress her.
The majority of the guys will try to impress her so when you will put her to impress you that will be a real challenge to her.
For example lines which make her self-conscious are like these ones.
Hans: “Hey, excuse me. I just wanted to say that your shoe is untied” (with smile)
Hans: “Sorry may I ask a question which bothered me all the way long during this trip. Is is true that in this country there is no good pasta at all?” ( to be used abroad when in her country: this is little bit of a neg)
Lines which put her to do something for you - for example in a fashion shop - asking her opinion about something you want to buy for yourself.
Because you are the Prize.
Hans:"Sorry can you tell me your opinion about this jacket, I think it makes a good match with the trousers.”
These lines are a challenge because she does not know what to think: you are not praising her, you are not kissing her up, she cannot even know are you interested in her or not.
When done with the proper laid back verbal attitude she will be challenged to think: "Wow this guy really is not impressed by me. Let's find out about him!"
Communication
Women are compelled to communicate socially with other people. This comes from historical times not very far away when a woman - without the support of the man, her peers and her social group - could have at worst died of hunger.
For a pickup line to be effective soon after the line you have to go fast to communicating with her.
You say: wait a minute!
Am I not supposed to be cocky and funny first?
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Answer: sure and not in all the cases.
You have to calibrate.
If you are cocky and funny without giving communication to her you will pickup and seduce all the freaks - which is fine for me if it is fine for you.
A woman of a certain level and quality will not give you the time of a minute if she does not feel after your pickup line the feeling that she is communicating with you.
Many of you will ask here: what is communicating?
Well I am going to delude you here: for the majority of the women communicating is the same like you paying attention to her and what she feels.
In a word: you have to make her feel the feeling that she feels good in your company.
To make her feel good you need to make her feel that the two of you are sharing special emotions.
So don´t even think for a second that communicating would be sharing with her the last financial news.
Your pickup line would end very fast in her telling you: ”bye, bye” or telling you “let´s just be friends.”
You have to move her emotionally: this is what women mean with “communication”.
The reason women want emotional communication is connected with survival:
They need to know if they are really getting deep into you. It´s their way of asking for social support and maintaining it over time.
And here we get to the next point...
Emotions
How you move a woman emotionally?